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I just spent the morning really stressed out about this house buying thing. The issue is that even though Gordon is buying me out of the house, he's not going to refinance it because he's going to sell it (and refinancing costs a chunk of money). Sooo I've still got that damn house on my credit even though I don't pay anything on it. This is where my dad comes in. When I first started house hunting I told him that if I found a place now I wouldn't be able to get it unless he helped me out. He 110% was willing to be a co-applicant so that I could buy now instead of waiting on Gordon to sell the house. Well, now my dad's at this chair building school all week way over on the east coast. Yes, he's learning how to carve wood and build a chair. He's at this thing all day and impossible to get ahold of. I talked to him last night and he said maybe my step mom Mary should just co-apply to make things easier. But Mary is very deliberate, slow and unsure about things without my dad there to do everything for her. I'm not putting her down but she's just not a take charge person and she relies very heavily on my dad to handle things that need to be handled in a timely manner.
The lender needs her to fill out an application and get it back to him. My realtor needs her to fill out paperwork and get that back to him so that he can complete my offer. When I spoke with her this morning she wanted to wait until my dad had called her during his lunch break to talk things over with him again. Grrrr I hate having my fate in someone else's hands. So after stressing out all morning wondering if she'll get her shit together today (and I still haven't heard from anyone that she has - it's 2pm here now) I've just decided fuck it. I can't do anything about this so I might as well just relax and see how this plays out. If she doesn't come through for me then I'll just have to wait until the house sells so I can do this on my own. It would be nice if I could count on some-fucking-body around here. *sigh*
Published by :deanne 2007-03-19 20:15:05.0
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